NOBODY SHOULD BE YOUR WEAKNESS
Strong people are known primarily by their emotional strength. They don’t fall weak in their knees when they see a beautiful woman, or somebody with power, or great charm. Normal people get emotionally pulled to people in the limelight. It becomes their weakness.
Similarly, in our life sometimes we fall deeply in love with someone or develop a deep attachment. Then suddenly we feel insecure. Because the depth is so much, we can’t afford to lose the relationship. Also, the behaviour of the opposite person sometimes gives us some insecurity. They don’t show as much affection as we do. Now, we are emotionally fragile. That person has made us weak.
To prevent people from becoming your weakness, you may like to look at below 7 guidelines :
* think of your death & shortness of life
* don’t emotionally invest in only 1 person – be balanced
* be a giver of emotions, not a nervous receiver
* if someone hurts you badly, move on – you can’t teach an insensitive person to be sensitive
* if your ego is small, it won’t be easy to hurt you, remove sense of pride from yourself
* life is to do good, feel good – this is fully dependent on yourself & not anyone else
* be prepared to lose every single relationship, thus be mentally independent like a free bird, know your self worth
The greatest stress in life comes from emotional instability. You are not secure in yourself. You don’t know your worth & what you stand for. In this turbulent mental state, we seek to cling onto someone whom we feel can guide us in our dark days. But alas, the truth is we are alone in this universe. We need to learn our own lessons in emotional management. Holding onto a crutch robs us of intellectual independence. It’s in this fragile state that we cling onto people & relationships & start feeling insecure in them. This dependency needs to end.
Nobody should be your weakness !
– Sir Dr. Huz
www.sir-dr-huz.care
